You Ain’t, I Ain’t, We Ain’t Shit

In the world of romance, it's time we start claiming the shit that comes out of our own ass.

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Seeds of 2016: Let That Shit Grow

The Seeds: Started A Business. Performed Poetry. Wrote A Collection of Poems. Recorded My Passion. Cultivated My Circle. Gained Closure. Fell In Love. Found Genuine Connection. Cleared My Sexual Energy. Practiced Yoga & Meditation. Gained Better Coping Habits. Excelled in retail Received Bonuses and Recognition. Lifted My Own Spirits. Accomplished My Goals. Expanded Social Media... Continue Reading →

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Getting Over My Fear: Vulnerbality

     Being vulnerable is my biggest fear and it's ruining my life. Vulnerability is my worst nightmare. It's the essence of my biggest fear: opening myself up and becoming bare for the world to see. The world being my friends, family, coworkers, boyfriend and even the waiters and customer service agents that have to... Continue Reading →

I Refuse to Fight This Fight

I recently came to the jarring realization that my boyfriend derails most of my conversations. Regardless of the topic. This is a problem. Not only because of the rudeness but because of what it represents: misogyny and patriarchy, both descendants of white supremacy wrapped into one. But the confusing and incredibly frustrating thing about it is, my boyfriend... Continue Reading →

Our Time

Last week, a song from our era played on the Frank Ocean station on my Pandora. It was a song that represented us. A song that exhaled the very essence of us and it still does so, though time has passed and things have changed. My feelings have long changed, but the song is still... Continue Reading →

126. Regression: Back and Forth

Mark my words: Spring Break is the devil. Well, maybe it's not that extreme. But it is all a trick, a trap created to fool students with a week of what we are led to believe is freedom. How free is freedom when it ends quicker than it started? How relaxed can you be when... Continue Reading →

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